What's an Adviceless Column? It's an advice column that doesn't deliver. Ha!! Well, not really. Here, your questions are not answered, they're "unpacked". If you have problems and want answers or solid advice then there are hundreds of folks reading and willing to give you advice. Knock yourself out.
My philosophy is, a question does not seek an answer...it hides the answer--the answer you already have. My responses are based on principles of honesty as I see it. Honesty is simply living without dependence on fear.
Many questions can be translated as, "How can I be who I am without fear?" It's in recognizing the fear/buffer/veil that we simultaneously discover the answer that was there all along.
Ask your questions regarding relationships, child rearing, teens, divorce, health, spirituality, work, religion, financial problems, etc. Let's unpack them so you see you don't need advice.
Disclaimer: The advice offered in this column is intended for entertainment purposes only. Use of this column is not intended to replace or substitute for any professional, financial, medical, legal, or other professional advice. If you have specific concerns or a situation in which you require professional, psychological or medical help, you should consult with an appropriately trained and qualified specialist. The opinions or views expressed in this column are not intended to treat or diagnose; nor are they meant to replace the treatment and care that you may be receiving from a licensed professional, physician or mental health professional. This column and its author are not responsible for the outcome or results of following any advice in any given situation. You, and only you, are completely responsible for your actions. "